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This has happened at some point whereby a friend of my friend Invited me for an occasion which I was not directly given an invitation, since I know the celebrant I did not have a second thought, I was maybe he forget to gave me mine, I did not have any negative reasoning that he did not want me to attend the event, it was on Saturday and everyone was present at the event ground, when I drove in, the bouncers was asking of my invitation card which I did not have, I began to explain, that the celebrant is my long time friend, which we Happened to be doing things together back then when we were working I'm the same place of work.
And before, I know the bouncers told me to turn around and leave, that anyone without invitation is not permitted to enter this ground, that if I like, I should hang around, my presence is not needed inside, but hanging here is at my own demands, I was like, what!! A whole me? Humiliated like this! I left with annoyance and get to a nearby bar, grabbed a bottle of beer and chilled up myself, immediately, my phone rang and I pick it, it was my sales person telling me that a man came to the shop in asking of me, which he told them I went to an event and they said, he should not worry that they will see me there at once.
Now, my friend who invited me was looking for me so that been can go together, but I was fast ahead of me and I was humiliated like a dog for not having an invitation, the whole thing was like an exams and all I could think of was, that I have failed, which I would rewrite again next year.
Then I learnt that, going to an occasion when you were not invited is very, therefore o do not wish for anyone to make such mistakes which I have make, because the kind of insult I received was too much that I was very angry of the person that invited me.
Since that day I can never at myself in a place where people do not need my attention, I make sure that my presence is fully required before making a move.