Before, during and after Valentine's day has been a mess with the misinterpretation people gave the celebration of Valentine's day, but that's not the worst case scenario. People(mostly ladies) have become so entitled to be only the ones to enjoy that day and many others at the expenses of another without giving back. Truth be told, a few ladies treat their spouses to a lovely date but that's just a fraction of the world's population of couples, lovers etc.
As if that's not bad enough, I have seen bants and Tweet wars of ladies comparing celebrities dates out with the way a romantic date should be, at the expense of their supposed lovers, which is not bad considering if they will remain faithful and not do same thing to about half a dozen partners simultaneously.
Michael B Jordan, the Creed and Black Panther Hollywood star rented a whole aquarium just so that his girlfriend Lori Harvey(Steve Harvey's daughter) could watch her favorite pets "Sea Turtles" as they dined on Valentine's day. It was rumoured to have cost $7000, but that's nothing to these millionaire celebrities, and yet some ladies who's two month pay check is not up to that was setting that as a standard for her ideal date for any guy wanting to take her out.
The arguments and the name calling under that tweet confirms how people day dream and miss out on the real things that could bring them lasting joy and happiness just because they made celebrities, rich folks their standards to happiness. One could argue that its nothing if you have the cash in surplus, I'll do beyond that for my girl without her asking. But when she mandates what she wants for me based on what she has seen, that's where the problem begins.
Life isn't bed of Roses, Happily Ever After exists but there's an underlying story to it. Cut your coats according to your sizes, if your partner can't afford something, never put unnecessary pressure on them. Besides, couples are supposed to be helpers and supporters, not one draining the other's pocket just for her own momentary fun!