Praise be to the Almighty to God for sparing our lives till this moment. It's another time to discuss the word of God on the topic "Seeking for a wife". Truly it's not good to be alone according to the book of Genesis. Beyond procreation, God also created marriage for companionship. So, it's not strange when our hearts long for spouses; when our hearts long for wives.
Different people use different methods in seeking wives. Some seek wives through intermediaries such as family, friends or colleagues. Some seek wives by consulting seers or diviners. Some rely on dreams and visions. They seek to see their wives in dreams and marry. While this goes on and everyone does things in his own way. The rate of divorce is still alarming. Probably because they didn't get what they wanted in the spouses or what drew them to the spouses disappear.
The truth is that God's way is not ours. We labour so much at times, looking at appearances, using our discretion in seeking wives, but the end most times is war, trouble, simply because we were the ones that sought the wives ourselves. Wives are good, truly. They are favourable only if they are given by God. Most times dream fail us. The wife we sought to see in the dream and later saw and married could turn our nightmares in marriage.Dreams could be deceiving, not all dreams are from God. Devil could play on minds, and bring that which we wish to see.
Seeking wives through Intermediaries is not also the best, because the end can't be guaranteed.Seeking wives through family and friends can lead us astray without God. Hence, Gid remains best and only provider of good things.
The Bible says in the book of James," Every good gift is from above and cometh down from the father of light..." Nobody can receive anything except it's given by God. Ours is just to trust God, He knows the end from the beginning and He has made provisions for us from beginning of the earth. We shouldn't bother seeking wives by our own logic, or outside Christ. When the time is right, God will make it happen and we will know it.
Thanks for reading.