When we refuse to obey God that is called disobedience. Disobedience can also be considered as rebellion. As Christians where obedience will take us Disobedience can never take us there. Obedience and Disobedience are roads that take different routes. Their destinations can never be the same.
The road to disobedience is very broad and that is why we see a lot of people today going down that road. Christ told us that the narrow way is the best. Though we are in this world we must still obey the Will of God. The Bible tells us that though we are in this world we are not if it.
Our way of living should not be in conformity with the standards of this world one the trend, it should be according to the Will of God. We save ourselves a lot of trouble when we are obedient to the Will of God. Real wisdom is when we start to take the Will of God seriously with a desire to do nothing else but His will.