Why does it take a longer period of time for human to forget the bad things done to us? To be sincere, the question is clear and the answer can be found in the scripture as explained to us by the holy spirit. Why then did it take longer time to forget when you say you forgive someone who offended you, the scripture gave an answer and related it to lack of love.
The rightful answer the scripture gave us is the absence of love because anyone that has the love taught by our lord Jesus Christ through his apostles to us, it will be easy to forget everything even the most painful act of man towards you through someone who offended you. The kind of love given to christians by the lord Jesus Christ, it will be so easy to forget knowing there are things easy to forget.
Why do you always remember the ugly things? why are all the things to always look back on are ugly, why do you remember the things that are not pleasing in the eyes of God and in the eyes of man? Why does it always come back to your mind? Or can we say there is a force that always make you remember the ugly scenes? If there is a force or spirit that brings it back to your memory then such spirit is not of God.
The scripture made it known in hebrews chapter 8 verse 12, the attitude of God towards sin and sinners which says " i will be merciful to their in unrighteousness and their sins and their iniquities will i remember no more". This is the clear assurance given to us in the bible by the lord in the bible, the most powerful, the ones who remember everything that happens.
God didn't need a picture or video to remember anything, he knows the reality of the past, the present, and the future because he is a perfect God with perfect memory. And this God of perfection says "i will be merciful to their unrighteousness, their sins, and their iniquities will i remember no more". This is someone with perfect memory to forget all our sins and our iniquities, that is something humans cannot understand.
This made apostle paul called it unfathomable riches of his love in romans 11 verse 33, it indicates the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God and how unsearchable are his judgements and his ways. Finding out the unsearchable and unreachable depth of God's love, understanding , and wisdom because as humans we cannot understand the depth of God's riches. This God due to his perfect memory forget all our sins and even as humans we tend to forget things quickly including the important things in our lives but why do we find it difficult to forget the ugly incidents between you and your friend, your colleagues at work, or even family.
Why don't you forget the wrong they do to you? upon all the things that humans can forget why is the ugly things difficult to forget? This is because their is a force that brings it back to your memory, the ugly things that jas happened to you in order to create hatred and retain the bitterness in your heart and while it remained, you are under the influence of being called a murderer either to the people you hate or to yourself.
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