It is our manner of life that can win the heart of a person. Oh, how this reality sinks deep into my heart. It is our manner of life. It is the way that we live our lives that will make someone to love us or to dislike us. The emotions of like and dislike or love and hate, do not just come, something triggers them. That thing which causes a person to like you or to dislike you is our manner of life. So, it makes me learn that someone will not just hate you or love you in isolation. Something must give birth to that.
So, having understood this, what are the parameters that determine a person’s manner of life?
Our relationship with people
The way we relate with people is one of the yardsticks for measuring our manner of life. When we are talking about our manner of life, we should also remember that it is our character and attitude. Either you are a friendly person or a rude person is something that defines your character. Are you a kind hearted person? Are you someone who is easy to approach? Are you too hard to be entreated? Can you keep one company without the person feeling bored? What kind of a person are you? These definitions can determine how someone takes us.
The way we talk
Some people are difficult to confide in. They talk too much. They just can't keep secrets. To such a person, it might look as if people do not love him because they refuse to talk with him.