There is no other way than the way of the Lord. The way of the Lord is for a family to live within the limits of the Gospel. As a father or mother, you are to be concerned about your children.
Psalms 103:17
The mercy of the Lord is from everlasting to everlasting, upon them that fear him and his righteousness unto children's children.
The fear of the Lord must be our way of life. The fear of the Lord means to obey his will, to keep his commandments, this is the real meaning of the fear of the Lord.
Ecclesiastes 12:13
When all has been heard, the conclusion of the whole matter is this: Fear God and keep his commandments for this is the whole duty of man.
Fearing God here means to reveal God, to have reverence in God, not fearing him like fearing Him like other things that scare us. It is the way to keep a family in touch, a union in touch, by keeping the commandments of the Lord, beginning from the husband and the wife. We have to live by the law, by the commandments, by the will, by the admonition of the Lord. Living within the law means a family of unity.