You see as humans basically we always want to have a reason, a conviction in our heart before we do anything especially if its about extending a hand of kindness to another....
I was having a discussion with a dear friend of mine who was deeply hurt because of what some one said to her, this person is someone she holds dearly, treats her like a friend more than a friend would rather go out of her way to initiate an act of kindness because this person was squatting with her, some how something happened and what this person said to her were very undeserving hurtful words and she was shocked.
Most times we encounter this type of scenario more than once or twice, that's the reality about human nature....
So I told her that hey, don't worry about it, its life literally all of us have been hurt by someone we render an act of kindness to, instead learn to over look it, clear your mind and just breath one thing is sure that for every good act you do most times we don't get same in return from the person but somehow someone somewhere will do good to us which we never know thats how life works...
This is truth 1John 4:19 should be at the back of your mind, that's the reason you need to be compassionate to your fellow human, show love, show kindness, we're not doing that cause of we expect something in return from that person no, we do that cause God first loved us and gave his son to us when we were very undeserving unworthy, still in sin and dirty, Jesus coming to save us and to redeem us back to the sweet, good life God had design for us right from the beginning, so when ever we reflect on this amazing generous act of God we ought to reciprocate same to our fellow human...
So when next you see someone in a mess or in a dare need, if you can spare a dim please do, any good you can render to assist anyone do it cheerfully not expecting anything In return, do it as Unto God as he did unto us not finding any reason or whatsoever to but genuinely gave out his beloved son to cleanse and redeem us back to him....
Like my friend people will definitely hurt you, do and say all manner of stuff to us even in the very face of the good and generous will we do to show love and this can be so hurtful, just let it go, let it slid know this for sure one good turn deserves another somehow your good will, will comeback in good measures ....
Never have a reason to Do Good, just do it..
