there is big reason why the word of God will admonish us to Love our neighbors as our selves, because we can only express that love outwardly enough to the degree to which we love our selves inwardly .... just like Peter amd John said to the man at the beautiful gate, silver and Gold I have not such as I have....meaning you can only give. what you have whether voluntary or involuntarily, so likewise a man can only give out love because he has enough of it but where we experience domestic violence means there is no love in that home....
it is very wrong amd totally unacceptable, why should a man raise his hand to beat his wife, whom he claimed to love and care for, simultaneously because he's strong and has more power over her thus the reason why the Bible would say dwell with them according to wisdom, that's because the women generally are weaker vessels and as such needs to be treated with care, alltho in most cases these women are mostly the cause of them not all just a few exceptional cases.
domestic violence is a total no no, it's totally wrong and the works of Satan according to Bro eli, this works are inspired by the devil because they are not God's kind of nature,
So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself Ephesians5:28
it's clear written accord to God's word, that he who loves his wife loves himself, that means he who beats his wife hates himself.
***in which you once walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience, Ephesians 2:2.
according to what Bro Eli said every act of domestic violence is satanically engineered its not from God