Brother Eli gives us a reminder that parenting is not accidental. We need to be intentional. This effort is on training, not marrying, loving, strikes, very hard.
In Proverbs 22 says, this is not the motivational quote, it is the responsibility, but the consequence. What stands out the most is honesty. This training takes a lot of time, years of repetition. You have to be patient and live by what happens.
Children are not born with wisdom. They are shaped by what we see consistently and what it's been taught. What are the processes that are generated? The Bible is clear about the results, the bitterness and the heartache. Brother Eli speaks not just from scripture, but from Many years of experience and teaching. And this gives the message, the weight that is needed to be accepted by all believers.
His teaching exposes us to a truth that we always want to avoid. Frustration is adulthood, often have good suits when we are neglected in childhood. This no condemnation is a warning. If parents show discipline, values, the fear of God early, we have to reap peace later. If we ignore it, it will cost us a lot.