The word forgiveness sounds familiar must strange to the heart most times we confess it but our heart does not, and in all what we most remember is the bitterness, the anger, and how we been hurt badly, sometimes I imagine how this world would have been if we can all truly forgives each other,
According to the book of Hebrew 8:12 which talked about how God himself is willing to forgive Us our iniquities our unrighteousness and forget them all.
Sometimes I wonder how our maker the one with the perfect memory is willing to let go of all the wrong that you and I have wrong him but we cant forgive our neighbors, forgive depend on love and peacefulness, in other to let go of burdens we need the love of Christ because it only takes the true love of Christ to let go, And we must understand that our strength wont help us except we depend on God.
The world will be more better and peaceful we if love truly leads and have the heart of forgiveness, a heart full of hatred malice is a heart on the part of death, some can keep hatred in there heart for years the moment they meet that person for the first time in years the first thing that comes to there mind is the wrong the person has done, that alone is a gate way for the enemy to use.
Guide your heart with the word of God unforgiveness should not be is easy but hard guide your thoughts pray, study his words, if you ready the book of Colossians 3:13 it says
"Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye."
Learn to go, let the past be and focus on the future and what God has for you then you will see real you manifesting in his glory.