Most times, we humans find it difficult to forgive those who offend us and the reason is because we lack love among ourselves. If we love ourselves as Christ loved us, we will always forgive those who offend us.
There are things considered to be so easy to forget, we cannot forget something that is ugly or evil. We always remember those evil things that people did to us instead of good ones and it is because there's a force that brings that memory back to our minds which is the devil. Hebrews 8:12 reminds us the importance of forgiveness in the life of a Christian. God himself set example of forgiveness, not only forgiving our sins but he promised not to remember it anymore if only we will repent and ask for his forgiveness.
As Christians, we should always learn how to forgive those who offend us. We should consciously let go of our bitterness, grudges and resentment. If the God with perfect memory, who remembers everything will forget all our unrighteousness, then who are we not to forgive the bad things that out fellow humans did to us.
Let's always ask for the grace to have a forgiving spirit because it's not always easy to forgive and forget as humans we are, but with the help of the holy spirit we can be able to forgive those who offend us and live in love.
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