All those things that made your parents,hate you, do the opposite.
It is our manner of life our behaviour our character that can win the heart of a person our character our good dealings with people may win their hearts for us you see Jacob was hated by Esau they are twins but later jacob was hated by his twins brother Esau because jacob has gotten what we call in the bible the right of being a firstborn now all those years jacob was hated by Esau but one thing jacob did after passing times jacob treated his twin older brother because although they were twins it was esau who was first delivered so, it happened that to a piece the hate and the anger of esau against him.
Genesis chapter 32 verse 13 says, and he lodged there that same night, and took of that which came to his hand a present for Esau his brother.
Verse 14 says, two hundred she goats, and twenty he ghosts,two hundred ewes, and twenty rams.
Verse 15 says, thirty milch camels with their colts, forty kine,and ten bulls, twenty she asses, and ten foals. You see this spells a great wealth during those times imagine the present that jacob taught to give his brother esau. So many imagine 200 she goats or female goats and 20 he goats or male goats.
It is also the character the ways of dealing with people."The wise win souls". Proverbs 11 verse 30 says, the fruit of the righteous is a tree of life; and he that winneth souls is wise. Has parent you have to win souls with wisdom used by jacob. He that winneth souls is wise. 1 Peter 3 verse 1 says, likewise you wives, be submissive to your husbands, so that some, though they do not obey the word, may be won without a word by the behaviour of their wives. It is manner of the apostle paul also to win people for christ. Adjust yourself all those things that made your parents hate you do the opposite extra love, extra love this is the council of the bible and you will win the heart of your parents. You have to also pray for them.
1 Timothy verse 2 verse 1 says,i exhort therefore, that, first of all supplications, prayers,intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made of all men. Pray for them and we will be praying for you also to win back your parents and have a good relationship with them in the future