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What's meant for a man by God as a partner is a prudent wife and also, what's meant for a woman is also a prudent husband which means it's vice versa.
Proverbs 19:14 House and riches are the inheritance of fathers and a prudent wife is from the LORD.
In the above scriptural verse, the scripture says that, house and riches are the inheritance of fathers and that a prudent wife is from the Lord, which means when talking about a prudent wife or husband, it's that which is from the Lord, not the one from the world.
1 Corinthians 1:19 For it is written, I will destroy the wisdom of the wise, and will bring to nothing the understanding of the prudent.
The above scripture made us to understand that not all wisdom or prudence is from the Lord and for this reason, for us to have our own partner who is from the Lord, we must be careful and sensitive to the kind of prudence we look for in that man or woman that's meant to be our partner.
However, according to Bro. Eli, the kind of prudence we see in that person is not the one from the Lord, then there's no reason in going ahead with that person.
So, instead of going ahead with that person who has no prudence of the Lord in him or her, we should wait till we have the right person as there are many people out there with the prudence of God and moreso, love and true love comes when least expected.
In conclusion, we should endeavor to wait for the right persons with the prudence of the Lord and not the other way round.
Thanks for reading.