The story of Isaac and Rebecca shows us clearly how marriage should be done.
All the marriage procedures were done in an organized and honorable manner.
The servant Abraham sent told them clearly what he came to do, and when they understood that the hand of God was in it they approved of it.
The consent of Rebecca was gotten before she followed them.
The lesson from this is that, we should not rush into marriage or do it secretly.
The family of the groom and that of the bride should support them and be involved in everything.
When a believer is preparing to get married, the process should be done in the right way, that is , it should be done with the family's approval, traditional rite and the blessing of the church of God before they live together.
We can prevent confusion if we let God guide us through this journey.
The search for a wife should be done with prayer, honor and patience.
When we let God guide our destiny journey, we will have peaceful, honorable and a successful marriage.