Traveling as a backpacker is undoubtedly an unforgettable experience and full of constant learning for those who decide to undertake it, learnings that on many occasions can be seen as great challenges that in the end are overcome, leaving a much stronger and more self-confident person as a result. They say that those who undertake a trip do not return being the same person and i can confirm it, that is why today i want to share with you a list of things you learn when traveling as a backpacker to help those who still do not decide to do it, and so on. make the decision which i assure you you will never regret.
Whether you decide to travel without a specific direction starting from the country in which you reside or start first by making specific trips for a certain time, if you do it alone or in company, you will learn endless things that will increase your passion for traveling. In my case, my first trip was for a certain time, i traveled with a group of people of which most had the company of their partners or relatives while i went with my own company, but it was undoubtedly a pleasant experience for me.
(Adivinen quién soy…jajaj || Guess who I am ... haha)
Our trip was to the beautiful beaches of Choroiní in Venezuela, after a long journey (between 45 and 50km in total) and for me being my first time, we arrived in a small town called Cepe where we were welcomed with fried fish in the best style Venezuelan beach, an incomparable warmth of its inhabitants and the best beach views that can exist ...
This is how I started in the backpacking world and as my desire to travel grew I wanted to venture into new adventures, and thus my beliefs were modified seeing myself involved in a set of learning that positively impacted my life. I was not the same Gabriela because my mind expanded to new ways of seeing and wanting to live life. In this way I learned about:
Since the first trip I made to Choroní i was able to realize the kind and warm treatment that both my companions expressed towards me as well as each one of the people that we were meeting along the way, regardless of whether it was the first time or not they saw me, each of them expressed their support and friendship for me. This can undoubtedly be something new for a person who has lived all his life in a city where mistrust prevails and does not speak much to anyone because he could have bad intentions.
I learned that instead of being distrustful of someone we don't know and feeling rejection towards that person, why not be the opposite? If there are no reasons to distrust someone or to hate them, why do we do it? I chose to start trusting those i met for the first time and express my support and friendship for each person without distinction. Being a backpacker can teach you this and it can teach you that this does not mean letting yourself be hurt by others, but on the contrary, it means letting go of fear, fear of everything, and learning to be attentive, attentive to the intentions of each person without resentment but deep understanding.
So, i learned to be supportive, i learned to share with people without distinction and i learned to give my best smile to everyone, to have many friends, without a doubt from that day my friendship group grew irrepressible and I loved it. It can also happen to you if you travel as a backpacker.
I already mentioned that my first trip i did it alone, well i admit that iI had been working on myself for a while to decide to make that trip without company. But, i tell you that the Gabriela that I was before would never have dared to make a trip like this without at least taking someone because who would she talk to? Would i spend the whole trip alone?
Well that did not happen, in fact that thought did not cross my mind for an instant, i felt so confident in myself that i decided to travel and on the way i discovered that i never felt alone. On the contrary, as i said, i made a lot of friends, i felt love and support from all of them and if at some point one of them was not there to give it to me, i was not afraid because i was always aware of having myself.
I tell you that during the trip to Cepe it got dark for us, a monumental downpour fell and countless things happened to us that we did not expect, walking at night through the mountains without seeing anything because at a certain moment we separated into two groups when It started to rain, causing a group of us to run out of flashlights, i fell across a river that had no idea of its depth. I was crossing last and my companions who were ahead could not see me, they only heard the sound of when I fell into the water and the scream that i hit, i am not an experienced swimmer, but keeping calm and knowing that i was counting on myself i was able to get out.
Then it became a memory full of laughter because I lost one of my socks and almost lost a shoe plus i got soaked in the middle of the mountain at midnight. Thank God we managed to get a house that gave us accommodation, food and warmth for the rest of the night, and also the family that lived there became great friends.
Another of the great feelings that arose in me since I traveled as a backpacker (even when I write it or think about it, I feel like my eyes are misted with tears) is the love for nature and everything that surrounds us. Wow, being able to feel that you are part of it all has no way of expressing itself in words.
This not only happened to me on my first trip but on all the consecutive trips, i have made, filling myself with peace with nature and feeling like in the middle of nowhere, of a very cold mountain, where most can experience fear, Letting yourself be enveloped by that feeling, letting yourself be enveloped by the immensity of what surrounds you, closing your eyes and not thinking about anything, is the best you can feel. I invite you to try it to experience it because it is the dispossession of all your fears, it is to open yourself to nature and tell her: Here i am, showing you what i feel.
I remember the first time I camped in Bosque de Pinos, a magnificent forest located in Venezuela in the Edo. Miranda, the immensity of the pines, the cold, the sound of the wood at night when the trees moved, made me reflect on myself, on life and on being alive.
Traveling as a backpacker offers you the opportunity to find yourself alone, to finally look at you in the front without being able to escape because when you travel as a backpacker most of the time you will not have a telephone signal at hand to enter social networks, see memes and Forget what you are feeling, you will not have the opportunity to go out and drink alcohol until you forget whatever it is you feel or avoid it with endless things.
When you travel as a backpacker most of the time you have to face what you feel, fear, anguish or worry, anger ... and offer yourself comfort. For me, this is one of the best things about being a backpacker because you discover that fear is just an illusion and you learn to trust, to let go even if you find yourself lost. For me that is only capable of doing who discovers in himself his own courage.
I discovered that if I let myself go and trust life to give you what you need at the right time, everything else is fears that we don't need to pay attention to. So, if you still have not decided to undertake that trip, I send you a lot of encouragement, i assure you that it will be the greatest happiness of your life. And who knows if on the way we cross ...
Thanks for reading my post, i hope it has been to your liking. I will continue with this list in future posts and for you if you are thinking of traveling in this way you can ask me what you want, what would you like to know about it? My intention is to be able to inspire others and encourage them.
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