Love is a beautiful feeling and getting to share it with someone special is also beautiful ❤️❤️ but what's the highest court cases we hear on the news or over the internet is cases of Divorce.
Yes Just weeks ago we heard about a popular celebrity Toni Braxton who dated the same man for 16years got married to him secretly last month has filed for divorce. She said her marriage is boring that she's bored 🥱🥱.
She's definitely not the only one doing this there are many people. Some will say irreconcilable differences. I get it if the person is abusive please run for your dear life but if they aren't abusive and the don't cheat on you .
What is really the reason for divorce?.
Pardon me admin I got caught up with what happening around other marriages. Thanks for keeping the community busy the work you do is appreciated.
My THT is about my lovely 😍🌹 parents looking back to the year 2023 when they celebrated their 50th Wedding Anniversary ❣️❣️❣️❣️.
Cutting the Anniversary Cake in Church
Picture credit my phone.
Did someone scream 50 years how did they do it.Smiles with a. Lot of patience. I will tell you for free that there were days they had a bad query and my mother will still prepare dinner for my father to eat. Someone here will say why did she do it he won't eat the food. But that's not my dad. Growing up I never saw him to to sleep angry or on an empty stomach never . He will get up eat his food and go and sleep, he often tells my brother's to watch and emulated him as he doesn't ignore his wife's food just because they had a fight.
My siblings and I didn't know what to do or expect as we all but we tried to cover the event
Picture credit from my phone
From inviting just close friends we ended up having more than we invited for the house party 🤣🤣. But we had enough food to cover everyone thankfully.
It's not easy to stay with someone see and interact with the every day of your life. See them as your brother or sister. See them as the one you have always confess your love to and you will see how you will build that relationship. It's not going to be easy
I will tell you but taking it a day at a time and most times ignoring your partner's errors that way you can over look their shorts coming.
Is marriage hard work?
I will say yes but it's easier when God is in your home and he coordinates everything for you. So how can we keep our marriages when we are all hustling and struggling to make earns meet.
We plan with the children in mind and focus on the goal to make our marriage work.
Do my parents still argue....Yes
Do they fight verbally - yes
Do they love each other - hell Yes
And the love is what's keeping them till the end of life.
My 1 cent is if you know you won't stay all the way don't get marry there's more to the union than just getting married and I feel people should show some respect to it.
All pictures posted were taken by me