Hello everyone!
The fact that you are very strict all in the name of wanting to be known as a disciplinarian or because you want to be called a no-nonsense person or maybe you want people to be afraid is very wrong.
It is very important that you live a normal life and be nice no matter what you want to achieve for yourself.
There are people who do these things and at the end become so bad that other people don't want to associate with them, not knowing that one day you will actually need these same people you used your character to drive. And it will be so bad that these people will not want to help you.
If anyone disrespects you, it does not mean that you are weak or that you cannot make him respect you; of course, we have people who are very irresponsible, so you will not have to force them to accord you respect.
Remember that, whatever you sow, you will definitely reap. Being bad does not pay; do not justify your bad character with the fact that you need respect.
Just be who you are so that you can help the other people to ease some stress. There are people who are always stressed out when you are not nice. If you want to be respected or honoured, then make sure that you add value to other people's lives. You may not know what your smile can do for the people or what your words of encouragement will do; let's be there for people and make sure that we do not scare them.
Let's make this world a beautiful place for everyone to live in, and by this, everything will become fine.
There are times we need to let go of some things for peace to reign; it may hurt us, but it pays to be good.