Hace un tiempo vi un kdrama que se llama "Love Next Door" (El amor en la puerta de al lado) que de paso, si les gusta ese género y aún no la han visto les recomiendo que la vean. Debo decir que no le tenía mucha fe cuando comenzó, pero, poco a poco, me fui interesando en su historia, ya que tocaba muchos temas, entre ellos: la depresión, la falta de un entorno que nos acompañe en ciertos momentos claves, tal vez no por los demás, sino por no saber hablar a tiempo; por el dolor, el sentirse solos en este caso los protagonistas; entre otros más, como el amor genuino y transparente que logra triunfar y tener un final feliz en la serie.
Imagen de mi autoría editada desde mi celular Samsung A55 5G
Hablar no siempre implica solo una manera de hacerlo, podemos hablar a través de la escritura, el arte, de una canción, de una actividad que nos guste. Pero siempre intentar drenar todo eso que nos pasa indistintamente si es algo malo o bueno.
La canción habla de sentirnos vacíos en ciertos momentos, pero también habla de que, a pesar de ello, de no encontrar sentido, vienen días en donde debemos fluir y dejar que todo ese peso se lo lleve el viento porque habrá días hermosos, porque nada es para siempre, así como hoy experimentamos angustia, ansiedad, miedo al futuro; mañana será alegría, plenitud y nuevas metas por cumplir, y que debemos dejar atrás lo que no suma y seguir adelante, porque de todas maneras "life goes on" como dirían mis queridos Bitis. Todo siempre vuelve a su lugar, a pesar de las cicatrices se puede seguir adelante; las personas somos tan complejas, pero si hay algo que me gusta de nosotros es la resiliencia, la capacidad de pasar por momentos duros y así sea hoy, mañana o en algunos años logramos seguir caminando, encontrando motivos para un día más volver a levantarnos.
Y si a veces me dan estos momentos de reflexión ja, ja, ja, pero no crean que serán todos mis posts así.
Creo que la mejor manera de definirnos es no haciéndolo porque todo el tiempo estamos en constante cambio, asique ya veremos con qué ocurrencia aparezco luego.
PD: Les recomiendo esta canción que en lo particular me gusta mucho como ya lo habrán leído.
English version
Hi, I was just passing by to tell you about a random moment I had some time ago, those moments where you stop everything you are doing and you start thinking about something out of the blue, tell me I'm not the only one that sometimes that happens 😅.
Some time ago I saw a kdrama called “Love Next Door” which, by the way, if you like that genre and you haven't seen it yet I recommend you to watch it. I must say that I did not have much faith in it when it started, but, little by little, I became interested in its story, since it touched many topics, among them: depression, the lack of an environment that accompanies us in certain key moments, perhaps not for others, but for not knowing how to speak in time; for the pain, feeling alone in this case the protagonists; among others, such as genuine and transparent love that manages to triumph and have a happy ending in the series.
What I liked the most about the drama was its ost in general, each chapter usually has a particular song for different moments, but there was one that caught my attention, it's called Leave it all behind performed by Wonstein (Korean rapper and singer) that song came to me in a special way, because as soon as I heard it, it made me connect, its warm melody and the voice of the interpreter transported me to a place of peace, and at the same time it left me with a bittersweet feeling because it sounded sad, but at the same time with a certain tranquility and hope. I knew that the lyrics would have to do with the feelings of the protagonist because obviously everything that surrounds the drama is thought for that, but it is amazing how music connects us and produces thousands of feelings, despite being from different parts of the world and even though we do not speak the same language.
To this day, when I listen to it, I go through the same emotions, but now, if I know what that song says and it makes more sense to me, my heart was not wrong to experience all that, since its lyrics expressed the same thing.
Image edited by me from my Samsung A55 5G cell phone.
It made me reflect on how important it is to know ourselves, to give ourselves attention, to pamper ourselves and above all to be sincere with our feelings, to understand what is happening to us, to be faithful to our values and way of seeing life. We tend to leave ourselves for last because there is always something or someone more important. I think that's what pushes us to the limit many times because we don't stop for a moment for ourselves. I was once told that talking heals, and that phrase seemed very logical to me, although sometimes we don't feel the need to do it, it is necessary sooner or later.
Talking does not always imply only one way of doing it, we can talk through writing, art, a song, an activity we like. But always try to drain all that happens to us regardless of whether it is something bad or good.
Photo of my authorship captured from Samsung A55 5G and edited in Canva.PS: I recommend you this song that I particularly like a lot as you may have already read.
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