Yeah
By doing the little things that matter to me
1)I greet people in the most hyperactive way ever daily! but few of those same people see me as irrelevant and don't return the same energy even if I don't greet them
So instead I greet only my friends now and people that return the same energy to me back

2)I don't allow just anybody come to my hostel unlike before....before I was so free that if any ask me "oh bee can I come sleepover at your place" I'd be like "oh sure no problem without thinking.
Realized those same people won't do the same when you need a place to run to
Totally cut that off

3)I picked the people I share information with,learnt not to over share still learning
Picking your circle in which you share your emotions, secrets, happiness with is very important. The day you share it with someone random, they'd either ghost you the next and not give 2 f*cks about you.

4)be your own person around your tribe, don't be free with everyone

This as been it for me so far
And I'm still learning