Hello everyone, it's me , once again to make my entry in the dreemport week 3 prompt. This time I interviewed a couple for this prompt. The couple crossing 28 years of their married life. Their marriage was an engage marriage means none of them knew each other before marriage. I asked some questions and they gave me most of the answers to my question.
The first question I asked them "Engage marriage or love marriage which one is the best?"
They smiled and replied that it depends on the person and mentality. According to their opinion, an engage marriage is the best marriage because in an engage marriage both of them are unknown to each other end with time they start to know each other. It takes a good amount of time to understand the chemistry between them when it's an engage marriage. They are able to know one's weaknesses and strengths with time and the bond between them used to get stronger after marriage. But in the case of love marriage partners used to know almost everything about themselves and understand the chemistry before the marriage so after marriage, they have no chemistry left and no secrets left to share with each other. They also said that the chemistry between the couple is very important and it increases the curiosity and attention for each other and both of them have the opportunity to know more about themselves. So in their eyes engage marriage is best.
The second question was "What is the most important thing in making a married life happy?"
They said that to be practical many things are needed to lead a happy married life. But there are some important things which are required. Complete trust is the first requirement of it. Having the mentality to understand each other is also needed. Sometimes sacrifice is also important and sometimes adjustment to the situation is necessary. Besides several kinds of childish acts are also good for a happy married life.
Again I asked them is there was any funny incident of them which they could share with me.
They agreed to share only one. They said once they were sleeping and all of a sudden husband slapped his wife's face in the sleep. But his wife thought that her husband had done it internationally and blaming the sleep as an excuse 😅. 1.5 days wife didn't talk to her husband about it and after that, the husband was able to make her realize that it was not intentional.
I asked them about the best moments about their married life but I felt like they were not so interested in the question but still there shared about an adventure trip after marriage but I doubt it was not. And I didn't insist on them because I think it might be personal and I don't have the right to ask about it.
I asked for tip suggestions and tips for a happy married life. And I am sharing their words through points.
- Respect partner
- Trust your partner and don't doubt in any situation.
- Understand partner
- Don't hesitate to sacrifice for your partner
- Sometimes give some gift to partner ( not necessarily expensive)
- Be honest with partners and never betray
- In the time of quarrel one should need to keep quiet
- Don't compare your partner with anyone.
- Be an open book for your partner.
I asked for their permission to share their picture in Hive but they refused but they agreed to share their speech with me to share.
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