Helping shaping someone's goal is a big matter to me. Just like in a simple act, teaching and guiding them. Even though they can't get it on the spot at least they make their best to do it. Someone's learning takes time and process.
When I was still laying on my bed my little cousin approached me and told that I need to help him for his module. At first I don't want to help cause everytime I teach or help him, he wouldn't listen. When I'm talking he always want to play for something or even he got angry cause I'm so loud or the answer I teach him was wrong. Like hello how did you know that the answer I gave you was wrong, your still 7 year old, kidding. Will actually this time I help him for his module cause I don't want him being beaten by his father due to he didn't finish answering his module. I also told him that if he want me to teach him, he will listen and didn't do anything that doesn't related to our task.
I'm not the one who hold the module but instead I told him that you need to do it yourself and I'm just guiding you. I don't want him to be dependent on me cause what if to his journey going to the higher level he always want me to answer his module and he understand nothing or even learn. Luckily he agree and his starting to open his module and start questioning me of what to do next.
It's was good at first cause everytime I told him what to do he always do it.
It was o really funny this time cause he had that math subject ang he didn't know how to compute. I have that strict side and everytime a teach him I didn't laugh or even I raise my eye brow for him. Time goes by and I notice that his so very sweat and I told him that, why are you sweating it's not that hot in this area. His answer makes ma laugh. Hi said that his really really want to play but he was scared of my eye brow.
Time goes by I don't know maybe atleast 5 to 6 minutes were done with his module. He got 2 module to answer and he made it. Actually I'm not that really strict but for him I want him to be independent even just for beginning. They say that practice means perfect. Every time he came here and ask if I can help him for his model I agree but I was just guiding him and I'm not the one who wrote the answer for him. I don't have that enough patience if I teach something and the person I'm teaching with are not listening. But this time, I've tried not to scold him. I can see that his good in academic but have a barrier, being distracted by others, his mind was always at playing. Will that's normal cause his still young and need to explore. That's why at the early young age he knows how to prioritize first. But just like they said that we have different hobbies, passion or even things that were interested of.
