11 October 2025
It's really true that we see the value of time, family, and togetherness more than anything else as we grow older. And for us, Filipinos, birthdays aren’t just about getting older, they are deeply personal. We also show love, gratitude, and respect, especially for our elders who have guided us through life.
A few days ago, particularly on the 8th of the month, we gave our beloved Grandma a surprise 79th birthday celebration. She had no idea we were planning something and she was truly surprised when she found out.
In our family, every member contributes something, may it be food, money, effort, or simply the presence. That's what makes our gatherings special. It is not really about having a grand party, it is about coming together as a family.
We chose our favorite beach resort as the venue. The celebration was simple but filled with love and joy.
The day began with a prayer led by Grandma herself. A moment that shows how much her faith has shaped our family. After the prayer, her grandchildren gathered around her to sing the birthday song with full of hearts.
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One of the highlight was when Grandma blew out the candle on her cake. She was told to pull the candle out and discovered money attached to it. A surprise my cousin had prepared to make her smile priceless. Seeing her happy was the best reward for all of us who helped plan the day.
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As the day went on, more guests arrived, our relatives and close neighbors who have become part of our family through years. Of course, eating and drinking were the big part of the celebration.
And in every Filipino celebration, karaoke is there to make it complete and more enjoyable. The singing went on until dusk, with everyone taking turns on the mic.
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By the way, I want to flex the delicacies I made for my Grandma's birthday. I'll share the recipe one of these days.
The kids enjoyed swimming and playing by the beach, while the adults relaxed, shared stories, drinks, and laughed together.
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Meanwhile, my sister and I took a moment to shoot photos and videos for the product I wanted to promote as an affiliate. The beach view suited well.
It was more that just a birthday celebration, but a family bonding moment. This was what matters most.
For Grandma, the best gift wasn't the food, the surprise cake, or even the money. It was having her children and grandchildren around on her special day.
She shared her simple wish, that we always stay together, and support one another, no matter what life brings.
Grandma with her children
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Grandma with grandchildren
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It was a day we will remember, full of joy and smiles. It reminded us how lucky we are to have each other and to have a wonderful Grandmother. For sure, Grandpa was so happy in heaven seeing Grandma enjoying her birthday.
Thanks for your time.
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Jane is a Filipina wanderer in a foreign land who finds comfort in nature and freedom in writing. She loves watching raw picturesque landscapes, listening to the symphony of nature, breathing in drops of sunshine, walking through scenic trails and cityscapes, tasting new culinary flavors, capturing pretty little things, venturing into hidden gems, and dancing with the flow of life.
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