In life, satisfying something that we want means a lot. It arouses the energy within us, we cannot explain the feeling that remains enigmatic.
Hello, Hivers!
Have you experienced wanting something however there's a doubt about buying because of the lack of money, having a family to feed, bills to pay, and car maintenance.
My husband wanted to buy an Enduro motorcycle 2 years ago. At first, I opposed his idea of buying when in fact we still have our motorcycle for family. Our blackie (our first motorcycle in the family) was 6 years old now and it's still functional. The ego of man it is! He still pushed of buying it, so we made a deal.
The deal was that, he has to earn money from his profit without compromising our needs at home and so he hugged me for letting him. Finally, after 2 years of earning, he got it for 85,000 or 1,52.26 USD. It's a second-hand motorcycle ana and is well cared for by the first owner.
Now the question is, Is this a want or a need?
For me, IT IS A WANT, Why on earth I said that? Then why did I let him buy it? It's a want, I just let him have it so he would not be jealous of seeing motorists having big bikes. He's working so hard that he even forgot special occasions. He must have a treat like this.
He's not a professional racer but he happens to like big motorbikes. Which is a dream come true!
Before I said yes to letting him, he tried to convince me for 5 months (random days), to finally said yes. I can see in his eyes the happiness he felt when he finally got the motorcycle. The first user did a modification so it looks good than before. It's still in good shape, I thought that it was brand new.
On Valentine's Day, we had a date and it was our first ride on the road. So far, my experience of riding it was all good. It doubles the speed of blackie. The rough road would simply make a nice land compared to blackie which triggers my whole being.
It's a want for men! Those men who are into motorbikes. I mean, some men adored so much of motorbikes. Every time a group of men saw a motorbike, looking at it without their eyes blinking.
See that smile? Priceless right? That's why I think that it's his NEED. He is committed to his work, and can't even sleep due to the early delivery of vegetables. At home, he must regain sleep to have adequate energy and strength however the obligations are waiting for him.
This material thing serves as his treat and makes him unwind his stresses from work to ride back and forth. He's been worn out at work, starved, and lack of sleep however when he's at home one of the therapeutic activities is riding his motorcycle.
It does not make a less of a wife if you turn down at first and think twice where we can be both happy. As long as you learn how to give and take as husband and wife, then everything will run smoothly. Each of us has priorities in life and it's up to us how to run the family that we have.
That's it for today Hivers and hope you learn something. God bless and keep safe.
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