You know what, we often get several chances in our life. These can be chances, opportunities or options. Basically the main thing comes when we need to choose between any 2 things which we are very close to or leaving them may have a bad or good side effect.
Choosing between career options or opportunities of life can be said as it's much a way easier or so. I have a specific reason for that too. You can easily may a search on any of the network or online platforms and know about what you want to do in future and choose what basic study can help you to do or achieve the target set to that kind of level which you are seeing in your life.
The problem comes when we have options between a person or our career. This is the toughest and hardest decision to take in your life , holding to meet the needs of the future. One wrong decision can destroy your life and that's for sure. Something i think that loosing someone is good or bad? Then the inner voice just gives a answer don't judge a book by it's cover...and that's correct if someone hurts us should we expect the same for the other one too?
Here's the difficult question which i was too unable to answer. But finally i am a bit close to it. One correct or bitter thing in life is no one is there for you in your bad or worst times expect your parents. We should really learn to respect them. I usually think losing friends or love can be tolerated and we can move on and find someone but we can't do this with our parents.
My personal experience about myself is " I don't have a bestfriend or a close friend" no such friend seems to be that reliable to which i can trust upon or share all the things. Infact my bestfriend is my Father, he's the only and the best person. Sometimes i feel like i want someone who can heel me but I find none because i have myself.
Some of friends are like when they have their selfish interest for any kind of help or so they come to me and when it's done they are also done. Some people teach us the best lessons of life, i also learnt one that "Those suger coated words, teach us the best bitter lessons of life".
I seriously feel like hating everyone and being rude but i am unable. Sometimes i feel like doing it but i usually forget, majorly i sit alone in the classroom but i feel like i am there for myself and i have to be there.
Sharing something with you guys can generally heel me as i sharing this with you all can generally help me a lot.
Lessons are learnt by all but the bitter one are learnt by a few. Imagine you have a option between your close person and your career. I think that probably many people will choose the close person but what important is your career, don't waste your time on that person who can go anytime, cheat you anytime and go to someone else by leaving you at the worst situation.
But your career you studies and your profession will be there with you for lifetime it will give you an identity of what you are you all present here are capable of a lot of things but wasting your precious time towards what, which is not stick and if it is it's still of no use.
Getting an identity of what you actually deserve is the best moment of your life. You can be famous, everyone around you, you will find people recognising you can taking something great about you but it's upto you to, to just keep it as a imagination or create it and by proving it to everyone that you can do it.
Don't listen to what people say, listen what you say to yourself. If you think of doing it you can definitely do that and prove it. To create go work hard, it's not easy real changes are not easy we have to fight for them and figure out what is good for us.
So i hope you will understand and seek some knowledge from this post and surely take some advantages steps from which you can perform well and succeed well. Pain or point of realisation is better than that of regret. Choose your option of life sensibly so that you don't feel like you have lost everything after choosing that silly option,mark my words..!!
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