Its not the brain that remembers everything. Sometimes it just collect references along the way for you to remind you later.
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Certain places, smells, activity's, foods hold the memories for you. And that kind of memories always sweeter even they were bitter. You understand why that happened. Sometimes it comes with revelation,and That's the moment you go like
"ahhh, That's why that happened".
The people you meet along the way of your life, sometimes you get so much attached to them. You began to feel happy. Sometimes you feel like that's the purpose of my life. You think "I will stay with her/him until I die". Some people get lucky, but most of the people doesn't have that much luck. When they leave, you feel sad or angary or asking the same question again and again
"Why did they leave? What have I done?".
You start blaming them, trying to cut yourself off from the rest of the world or thinking about you wont talk to them anymore or doing something awful to them.
You see, Its not their fault nor yours. One of my wise friend once told me, "All of this are meant to be". Its selfish to think all those memories were yours. No its not yours alone. Time, place, people, fate and the whole universe made possible for you to feel those happy moments or memories. When someone enters in your life and leave you broken. You think that they took everything you hold dear. But actually its not.
You see, they teach you how the world works, how to recognize people, how to plan your next step without getting yourself hurt. These lessons, you cannot buy.
These priceless lessons only can be learn by those situations. Every single person in your life constantly teaching you something. You gotta take everything you find and implement when you deem necessary.
There is no manual to this life. Chaos everywhere, Hidden under the perfect nature. Everybody is different. They have same right to live as much you do. So enjoy every moment when you are with your dear people.
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In my writing I mentioned "you". Its not targeted to any specific person. Just a reminder for the future me XDD. And I am not a good writer like other brilliant authors in this community. Thank you for reading.