Recently I was reading a news on the Internet about a woman who was killed by her husband during a domestic violence, and during investigation it was confirmed that this is not the first or second or third time that the violence is happening in the family and even the neighbours were also aware of the domestic violence and that they have reported the husband to the police severally and nothing was done to him..
Well I am here to tell anyone reading this right now , never endure any relationship or marriage where domestic violence is occurring ... if you have an abusive partner , the best thing is to leave such relationship/ marriage....marriage should not be a do or die affair , if the marriage is not working then quit it..
Never settle for less , never hurt yourself while trying to please your partner most especially while trying to endure an abusive partner...if your partner is abusing you whether emotionally or physically or in any other way , run away from such partner for your own sanity..
The mistake that some people make is that they always assume the abusive partner will change someday , but in most cases those abusive partners do not change, infact they continue to become worse and they end up hurting the person who is in the relationship or marriage with them..
Never condole any form of domestic violence , ensure you save your life by living any relationship or marriage where domestic violence is happening....
Please stay safe...