This is deep and you have made a very valid point. There are different perspectives to life truly and one of things I have learned while traveling through this temporary place we call home is never to be too rigid with life.

I believe holding on to pain is a choice for whoever chooses to but transfering the pain is a cruel act. It is very important that we are fair with how we treat people and most importantly, harboring pain doesn't bring healing but love does if we allow it to occupy our hearts.