We cannot change the social system but we can change ourselves if we want.We have to follow that rule. Sometimes some inconsistencies are seen among the people of the society. But we can't change them if we want to or we can't change that system. Because it is better to change oneself than to change a group. Then maybe one day we will see another person change, that is, the whole system will change like a chain reaction.
People are constantly changing, whether it is necessary or unnecessary. People also change according to the laws of nature. It also changes due to location and circumstances. In the same way, nature also changes in its own way.
But the real purpose is to be lost in the drumbeat of change or change in the running time. Why am I asking to change, who am I asking to change, how much have I been able to change myself? How to change? These questions pierce such initiatives. Yet the reality is that we need to change. Because, nothing can be changed without changing oneself.
At present our nature has become such that we cannot find our own faults. We are always busy blaming or criticizing others. That is to say, our current social attitude is that we find joy in seeing the faults of others, finding faults in others and criticizing others. Criticism of others is just a means to an end.
The number of people who do not criticize others or do not find fault with others is negligible. We ourselves never think about these. And the attitude of those of us who work to eliminate these systems is such that we think we are the best people in the world and the rest are bad people and we have a responsibility to correct them.
But we also have to accept that not all people are equal. There are some exceptions in society. Those who admit their own faults and try to correct them. Many of them think that they have to correct their own mistakes. Because the change that is aimed at others only by ignoring oneself, does not affect others. It turns out to be a show job.
Think you're walking down the street. At that time a man was in danger. If you think there are many people here besides me to help this endangered man. So what do you think the situation will be? What if everyone thought like you! One day we may be in danger! Then people will start thinking like us. But if we don't think we can go ahead and help the man, you will see that many more people will come forward to help him along with us.
At any stage of life one should go ahead without comparing oneself with others. Then you will see that many will follow you. One day the whole social system will change.
Lastly, a person who always practices the faults of others and does not flinch at his own faults, his condition will one day be most deplorable. One day he will be known as a hated person in male society or everywhere. Conversely if he learns by looking at others and corrects himself, he will be at least a good man from society.
Which many will follow and love. And experience says that in social life one lamp is lit from one lamp to another and others are inspired by the path of one person. And since society is an aggregate of individuals, society will gradually change if the idea of correcting the individual is strong. So let's change ourselves and change the whole society.
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I am Md. Kawsar Hasan. I am a Bangladeshi. I feel very comfortable to introduce myself as a Bangladeshi. An assistant teacher by profession. A writer intoxicated. So I feel very comfortable writing content on different topics. It’s great to know the unknown and learn something new. Love to travel.
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