So here is the Disc 2 of the Marriage talk so where are the ladies? Please gather here.
If you haven't read from Disc 1, you are lucky, click on the link below
One might be tempted to say or ask "you are not a lady so how would you know?" etc. I have sisters, I have families and friends, so you see I have them all around me so I have observed, perceived and to a large extent I can say i understand most thoughts of the female gender as regards choosing the right partner.
Shall we begin?
Most young girls are confused about who becomes the man in their lives. Unfortunately, the economic situation in the society is not helping matters. Most girls have seen other female folk been cheated, abused and embarrassed by their spouses or husband and have vowed not to fall victims themselves.
So meeting him becomes a day to look forward to. What will he look like? How would he see me? What kind of husband will he be? Is he rich? At least he should be able to feed himself and me and cater for my needs.
Will he be full bearded or cop like smooth face? Will he be tall, handsome and muscular? Or just be moderate size and shape? These and many more are the thought of a lady who is ready for marriage.
Ok now let's draw the line, that she has grown with the features of a woman doesn't say she is ready for marriage. Most teenagers have fallen victims of bad boys who take advantage of their ignorance and need to be in the "league" of friends who have a "man" in their lives.
So back to the I am Ready to Mingle. Truth is, most ladies in this category don't even know what they want. Can we get a perfect man?
No! Everyman is unique in his own formation. You can't have it all. But you can make him become your Prince Charming or bring out the beast in him.
Warning: Looking for a perfect man has caused so many broken homes.
So just before you say I do; be sure you are ready to face the huddles that come with getting attached to someone else. Pray that God gives you the man who will love and respect you and whom you will honor and respect. Then be ready to build your home with him.
Will be glad if you will share your experiences