-Take a glass
-Ok i have taken
-Now drop it on the floor
-It will be broken
-I know you just drop it.
-Ok.(dropped it)
-Now fix it through the glue
-I tried my hard but there is still scratches.
This lines are very familiar to us. Right? Yes it is. We often use this example in trust related topics. Yeah Trust. If it is broken for once can't be fixed like before. No matter how hard you try to fix it but you will still be able to find scratches.
Suppose you have a friend whom you trust a lot. With whom you share everything. One day it is happened that you share a very confidential thing with your friend. You thought that will be safe with your friend. It will create no problem to you. But on the other hand your that friend disclosed that confidential thing with one of your bad-wisher. Which caused you a lot of harm. He broke your that trust by which you shared that thing with him.
Now suppose he got understood that whatever he did that was wrong. He shouldn’t have done that.He admits and ask for forgiveness for that. You may also forgave him too. Did it fix everything? No never it can. Now matter how much you forgave but it wont rebuild that trust anymore. You will never be able to trust with the same parentage on that man. It will be like those scratches on that broken glass which had some scratches even after fixing so much.
Now come to me, my personal opinion. Yeah i also do believe this way. It is easy to trust a person but it is really very hard to regain one's lost trust. What is broken once is broken, you can't undo that as like before.
Even in my personal life i have encountered with it very closely. Truly, when i have lost trust from that person it was feeling like everything is over. We tried to fix everything as we could and we did too. But in honest word it was not like before.No matter how hard i tried to move on from that but it used to stay in the mind always as to instruct me before any same kinda step. Sometimes it is also happened that i changed my steps which i thought to do but as of now i can't because i always have a feel that something of that type can be happen again as like before. So it always warn me before trusting that person again.
So whatever we do we always need to control our trust and invest them in right place all time because if it breaks once then it is very difficult to make it like before.
So guys that was all with this one. Hope you guys enjoyed it and agree with me too. If you have anything to say then feel free to let me know through comment box. I will be very very much happy on that. Thank you very much. Have a good time