Thanks to BDCommunity for this opportunity to write on this topic.
(The extent we see ourselves are the world of ourselves)
Firstly I will love to say;
"When you see yourself as helpless, the world is a threat". Power enables action. Helplessness is permission NOT to act.
I speak positive words, I dress the way I want to be addressed, I associate with those with a good intellectuals.
I also open my self for different types of learning ,I attend seminars, conference and lot more.
Perspective on ourselves (yourself):
The most powerful perspective is the one you have on yourself.
Self-definition ;
drives the direction of life, when you see yourself as powerful, the future is opportunity. When you see yourself as helpless, the world is a threat.
Power enables action.
Self-definition determines action.
You might see yourself as a FIXER. Your stress comes from the need to give solutions. You might see yourself as a COLLABORATOR. Tension comes from needing people to be vulnerable, open, and honest.
The expectations you impose on others reflects the perspective you have on yourself.
=Bossy leaders expect compliance.
=Visionary leaders expect initiative and boldness.
=Servant leaders expect connection and shared commitment.
=Democratic leaders expect collaboration.
=Fearful leaders expect protection.
=Bureaucratic leaders expect stability.
The way you think about yourself comes out in your feet and hands.
Self-definition exploration:
Explore a teammate’s true contribution.
How might personal stories reveal or shape self-definition?
What do complaints say about perspective?
What do teammates admire in others?
How we see ourselves, which is important to good psychological health. ... Self-image affects how a person thinks, feels and behaves in the world. So to some extent, we literally create the world we live in in each and every moment by what we project onto the world. Having some awareness of life itself.
CONCEPT;
Self-concept is how we see ourselves. When this differs from our experience in the world, the resulting feeling is incongruence.
Some people will say that guy or that girl have concept when it comes to dressing and an appearance , he chose to .
Note;: A way of seeing becomes a way of being.
