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A lady once sent me a DM to share her struggles in her current relationship.
She knew she was in a failed and toxic relationship but she cannot imagine her life without him......
According to her words,
“I have been with him for the past 4 years, where will I find someone to start over with?”
“I believe with time he will change and start treating me right “
“Despite the hate and constant physical assault, I know he love and I willing to help him overcome his anger problems “
If a relationship is not giving you the satisfaction you want, walk away before you start feeling stuck and helpless.........
If the relationship is not giving you the reassurance & commitment, please walk away before you settle for that toxic relationship.....
I don’t care how long you’ve been in that relationship....
I don’t care if all your family members already know him/her as your future spouse.....
I don’t care if you have publicly displayed him/her as your boo/bae.......
If that relationship makes you lose your self worth and importance.....
If that partner is not giving you the reassurance and commitment you desire......
If you have to fight hundreds of ladies/men just to get his/her attention..........
PLEASE WALK AWAY BEFORE YOUR PRIDE & SELF-WORTH IS BATTERED.
Don’t be scared to start all over a again.........
Don’t be afraid that you might never find love again.....
Don’t assume no one can love you the way you want......
If for no reason, end that toxic relationship so as to protect your sanity...
A preacher once said,
It’s better to be single hoping to be married than married & hoping to be single again.
Relationship shouldn’t be endured but enjoyed.......
Of course there are challenges in every relationship but it becomes toxic when your partner is not willing to face those challenges with you....
Remember,
Relationship is a choice & if it is not HELPFUL, it is definitely HARMFUL.
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