It is no doubt that there are facts and reasons which are beyond our understandings but sometimes life really puts us in situations which makes us realize that we are what we are? These circumstances really allows us to be the person that we actually are. From my point of view I do belive that these sort of situations allows us to realize the true potential within us. Like, good times makes us a better person and bad times makes us WISE!
But the negative energy that we have within us, while we go through certain transformation it tries to consume us from the core! Some people fall prey to it but those who does not, they sees the real light at the end of the day.
I do understand these situations are hard to deal with. Skepticism is a very diffuclt emotional way to deal with. If I say about myself, I have to say there were countless times where I felt like this is it! I am done with my life, I also went through the phase that it felt like, I am not capable of doing such things. This is not the way I wanted to live my life but at the end of the day, it took me a lot of time to realize there are people who are going through even more hard time and than I. If they can survive than why can't I?
The day I realized that, the turning point of life started from there. I must say, this is not really an easy path to go through. But it is indeed worth it! I would rather live my life in a wise way than to be of in someones hate list.
I am also aware of the fact, I can not impress everyone but I will do everything I can, in my possession to make it work in my favor.
Optimism
The current me, who went through some good and bad times in the past I might say, I have what it takes to be an optimist person. But when I look back, I still can not believe how much I have changed and how meaningful my life is right now 😊. While, not that my past life was not worth it in the past. As according to those particular moments, they were golden times. While as I think about it now, I realize how foolish I was and how many stupid things I did lol.But they do act as memories for now!
Even after all these, having hope and confidence within thyself, and having belief in such emotions and utilizing those facts in your favor to bring change in your life is a gift which I would cherish for the rest of my life.
At the end of the day, I just want to say in different stages of our life we get to learn about different aspects and the things that we learn from such experiences makes us wise/ someone who chooses the wrong path in their life. You get to decide, which path to choose for yourself!