Why do people fall in love while knowing the term pretty well that to love someone one goes through unbearable pain? Well, you might feel the question is too deep where I would tell the answer is deeper than the question is. There are most of the people I have seen in my life who don't truly have an extreme desire to get in a relationship. In fact, some of them promise to himself or themselves that they don't fall in love and their major intention is to make a solid soul and they feel it's not legal that is one of the crucial reasons behind escaping away from love.
Well, what do you feel about love? If you escape from itself then won't it grab you or won't you fall in love? Is it like that? I don't think like that. I strongly believe, love is not a thing which you find or which you hunt, love is a thing which finds you no matter how far you run away from itself. Some cases I have seen all around, in my friend circle too. Some boys have been continuing their relationship for a couple of years. I have seen their pain while sitting in a place just for gossiping. While we were all friends in a meeting, I have seen a friend of mine suddenly cried out like mad just because of his breakup.
I have seen some of them continuing their relationship although having a lot of trouble. In every friend group there is a boy who doesn't actually believe in love and doesn't want to fall in love. When all of the friends talk about their love and share their pains with each other, the boy takes the fun from that incident. Yes, in my friend group there was a boy like that character too. I have seen him make the mistake although he has taken a lot of experience from their sides. But as I told you earlier the experience will have no value when you fall into that trap, haha.
Let me share a story of a boy, A boy named Abid was such an intelligent and at the same time clever in his childhood times. Most of the time he was at the top when the results of his school were being published. His prime focus was just to study and made a better future for himself more specifically he wanted to be a doctor at that time. So, he was pretty conscious about his study. He had been centralised by books most of the time. Sometimes his mom called him to take a rest or have in a gossip. But most of the time he denied it. Anyhow he wanted to fulfil his goal.
His school life went pretty smoothly and he quit school most time the time having at the top. Now, comes the turn of college. Yes, he made a couple of new friends in his college life but didn't go away from his goal. Among his friends some were boys and some were girls. Yes, for the first time he had made a friend who is a girl which he didn't before. After finishing the college classes they all sat on the college field and had a group study together. He sat there not just having a group study, he sat just to see her.
Times were going on and he gradually fell in love that he didn't know. His college life went as usual and having that period that he has weaknesses in her. Many times he went close to her to express his feelings but he had not the courage to inform her. Admission time was going on and everything going quite well. Suddenly he heard that the girl whom he liked most, within a couple of days her marriage will be held. Oh, damn! What would he do within the short time?! Nothing had been done by himself, she got married and his feelings were left to express.