Being sexy is classy but classy is not everybody's thing. It is the dream/goal of every lady to be classy.
Most ladies feel they have a duty to dress classy to attract the men and be approachable.
Some ladies, however, believe they dress for themselves and not the guys. Well, we know it is fallacy or a 'keep face sentiment'.
What i find very hard to stomach is how these classiness turns to a shadow of itself when they get married.
Amazingly, some still try to dress to 'kill' at least outside. Many of them care less about how they look in their husband homes.
Funny enough, they turn wrapper to the new classy! I still don't know why some ladies feel tying wrapper around their chest in the home is any classy.
Wrapper to me signifies old. It means the lady has finally concluded her trade and believes no one is looking at her again.
Somehow, she forgets there is a man inside that still crave for the sexiness and classiness he's used to.
Little do they know that if the man stops seeing those things that turns him on and always want him to see or be with her, he will seek it outside.
Even if he is not the type that likes women, he will look at a classy woman out there twice. Going to say hello is another thing and determines the guy's dedication
I think ladies need to explain what they see in tying wrapper? Funny enough, a wrapper could stay 1 month or more without being washed!
Funny as it may, it is annoying to men. Ladies should know that marriage is not the end of beauty and classiness.
The time you need to attract your man more is when you are married not when you are single.
Marrying is one thing, staying married is another. This is where lot of works need to be done on the part of the lady to keep her man.
He must always want to see you and be with you. All that you were doing that got his attention must be retained for him to always come home to you.
Stop wearing wrappers even if you are not going out. Sadly, many people wear it to the street to buy stuffs!
It is your duty to keep your home so do that by being classy in marriage, not old in marriage.
Thanks for your time.