How it feels becoming a father? If you never be, you can feel never.

There is a very famous poetry of Krishachanda Majumder that is:

চিরসুখীজন ভ্রমে কি কখন
ব্যথিতবেদন বুঝিতে পারে।
কী যাতনা বিষে, বুঝিবে সে কিসে
কভূ আশীবিষে দংশেনি যারে।

Can a blissful, even in fake

feel the pain of sorrowness?

How can feel the pain of venom,

Who was never stung by snake.

As the person who was never stung, can never feel the snake venom, though it sounds something negative feelings; but in true sense, it happens in for every human feelings.

You will find it more than true in real sense when you will undergo in the process of being a father. Yes, it can't even imagine the inner feelings to become a father. It's one of the greatest pleasures of this world as per my consideration.

The Journey of being father

It started about one years ago, while I was at a restaurant infront of a girl, thinking about to be coupled on a family arranged meeting and decided.

After one month, at a rainy day, I got married with that girl. It was 06 September 2019. A family meeting completed the program & suddenly my marital status changed!

About one and half months later, I received the girl on my house with a post marriage program at 25 October 2019. From that day, I became to feel the responsibilities and recreations of family life. Somebody tried to threaten me that the romance of conjugal life will remain for six months only. Then every couple have to land on runway from the flight. But I couldn't believe.

And the matter is that still now I am enjoying, though it is about one year passed.

Decided not to late

I had a plan decided even before the marriage that not to late on having baby. And we proceed.

Though the journey was not so easy, mentionable about the mother's condition, I am now happy that finally I have become a father and experienced one of the best feelings in this world.

I really thankful to my life partner Hive account@tasri for her support and struggles that gifted me a little angel. She suffered very much due to the misbehaves of some doctors and hospital stuffs.

It's a story of the ailing medical system of our country.

What Really Happened

The upcoming mothers have to suffer some false pain at last few days before delivery that is seemed to the original pain of delivery, but it's not. My wife had also the same.

As it was her first attempt, she couldn't understand that either it was delivery pain or false one. So we admitted her on Zamzam Hospital.

There was a doctor who claimed that the situation was not normal & urgently Cesare Operation is required for the betterment of the baby. But we were in doubt that the doctor is groundlessly pressuring us.

I took help from a very experienced and expert nurse who concluded after observing my wife that the situation of the baby was normal and if we could wait, it would be better for the baby. It didn't require any operation.

So I returned at home and waited. And after three days, when the original pain started, I brought my wife to another Hospital named Khristan Missionary Hospital that is very well known in that area.

It was about 02:00 AM. The duty doctor confirmed that all situations were normal, but they rejected admit the patient! We was just surprised with their argument!

They claimed that the delivery would be start at about 11-12 AM. So they can't admit on that time and if we come to the morning, they may admit!

We requested a lot that where will we go at tat middle night, but they didn't care. The duty nurse said that, she can allow to be admitted for only that patients who will deliver within 7:00 AM. Otherwise the hospital authority will call for explanation to her.

What a ridiculous argument! If a patient tends to deliver at 10-11am. They will not even admit her and reject at the midnight! I was astonished with their system!

Final Destination

We became helpless. At the midnight, I am on the memorial hospital gate with my wife who was shouting and crying for her delivery pain, and hospital did not taking us.

Then we went to a normal hospital. The journey to was very much painful for my wife, but I had no other options.

Then she got admitted on Unique Hospital, and delivered the daughter normally without any operation.

Feelings of being Father

It was raining. Both in and out. I was praying to Almighty for the betterment of the baby and mother.

Suddenly my brother in law came to me. He was running and gasping. I can recall that moment.

The words I heard, was: Brother, A daughter have just born.

I was speachless. And gave thanks to Allah.

Yes, I am happy. A happy father.

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My Fatherhood || The struggle, uncertainty and finally experienced the greatest feelings