Hi! Today I wanted to share with you a brief reflection on something that I sometimes think about. To tell the truth, studying Social Work has taught me to see beyond my perspective, to understand that there are no good and bad people, only people, that we all have our own universe and we act in certain ways along the path we have traveled in our lives. Learning to look with the eyes of others leads us to ask ourselves questions that are sometimes uncomfortable. Come with me to think, How do we deal with the pain of others?
Hola! Hoy quería compartirles una breve reflexión sobre algo que a veces pienso. A decir verdad estudiar Trabajo Social me ha enseñado a ver más allá de mi perspectiva, a comprender que no existen personas buenas y malas, solo personas, que todos tenemos nuestro propio universo y actuamos de determinadas maneras por el camino que hemos recorrido en nuestras vidas. Aprender a mirar con los ojos de los demás lleva a hacernos preguntas que a veces son incómodas.. Acompañenme a pensar, ¿Cómo abordamos el dolor ajeno?
ENG: Much of what we are capable of giving in our relationships is conditioned by what we have received, in other relationships, throughout our lives. We are aware that hurting is a decision, and I do not intend to remove responsibility from those who choose to address a problem from violence (verbal or symbolic, even physical), but when looking for solutions to the cruelty of others, we cannot ignore its background , What leads to this being the way of relating of a person? To solve an emotional problem we must face it, stand in front of it and look into its eyes, say 'yes, this is me, this is what happens to me and it crosses me', realize the patterns that we are repeating, in order to modify them. If we don't understand the story behind each aggressive behavior, we will continue to punish the actions rather than prevent them from happening. This requires deep introspection, accompanied by an environment willing to listen without prejudice.
And remember, no one is born looking to hurt others.
Question you, learn, and decide differently.