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Love and marriage seems to be a little bit different from how it used to be back in the days.
I am not really sure plus I am still single but from what I saw when I was little, it seems to be different.
[Screenshot from YouTube while streaming the song]
Married people were so lovely and genuine.
There were also rare cases of divorce, maybe they were suffering and smiling 🤔 this I don't know but they always look happy.
That getting married wasn't really a big deal because most people believed that you will meet someone that will love you and you live as one.
Another contributing factor about this generation love and marriage life is resources.
The economy wasn't as bad as it is now, so financial challenges wasn't that much.
One ugly factor about life is when people go through financial challenges.
The feelings for someone begins to die off because they person isn't able to provide for his family.
Truth is when someone is not relevant, there is a huge chance of being abandoned because you have lost your value.
Believe it or not, women are not in for a long run suffering.
She can only endure for a while.
The stronghold of love is decision after the first wave of feelings.
So, when the person decision begins to shake because of financial insecurity.
The marriage is prone to break.
Anyways, the struggle is real, I really hope the love and sweet marriage comes back as financial challenges tend to balance for couples.
[Screenshot from YouTube]
I was at a bar some days ago and this song Olo Mi by Tosin Martins played.
Oh, how it brought back memories.
This song is the inspiration for this write up.
It's a song released in 2006, during my elder sister marriage in the year 2011 or 2012 not really sure which one of the year but it's between the two.
This song was played on their wedding reception and they danced beautifully to it.
In as much as the song is a Yoruba song and we are Igbo, it was played and enjoyed by all.
And yes, we understood that it is a love song which goes well with the occasion.
Music video from YouTube
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