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Who has not been scorned, let him cast the first stone, they say... ( or not?)
The truth is that I think we've all been through this situation, and whoever says they haven't, may have been in a situation of extreme sadness due to some misunderstanding with their partner, or simply for not getting someone to share their life with.
And given this reality, the music industry has been in many cases, an excellent alternative to pass the bad time, cry and drain the frustration and sadness that overwhelms us during this period of mourning of the heart.
That's why today I share with you my top 5 songs with which I've spent my heartbreaks throughout my life. They are not in any particular order, because they all serve the same function: to cry your eyes out until you run dry.
The good thing is that these songs can still be listened to after that time, and many times, with the passage of time, you can even laugh at having felt bad about what happened, or at least that's what happens to me.
Number 5
This is one of the songs that I currently enjoy listening to, but at the time it was a direct stab to the heart, because it was the one that accompanied me in my first spite.
The funny thing was that his lyrics didn't affect me as if I was the one who needed his presence, but he was the one who sang it to me because when I ended it, he was constantly looking for me to start the relationship again.
Number 4
I think this song works for many other things than a spite, also to say goodbye to someone who passed away, and in my case, it was the anthem of a relationship that ended and that I even internalized that he died (he is alive, but not for me).
This singer has never been one of my favorites, but the song was in fashion at the time. The only thing that didn't fit me was the "eternal secret love" part, because nothing to do with it!
The good thing about that breakup was that it took me to psychiatric therapy and I met the best doctor on the planet, because he helped me with other things I had and didn't even know about.
Number 3
Yes, I am proud to be part of the anti-arjona team. For me this singer has made the lack of love and the vision of the male abused by women, the pillar of his success. And it's ok, there are women who mistreat, it just seems that all of them touched him!
This one did not accompany me in any spite, but among Arjona's offer, I think it sums up the failed story of a love in which there is someone who loves more than the other.
Number 2
Who better than a woman to accompany another woman in the middle of a rebound? This couple of girls with this theme summarizes how it all begins and ends. But above all at the end it gives hope that it is a period that passes and that at some point someone will come along who loves you the way you need.
With them, there is a bonus of another theme that I love, not only to pass the deprecation, but to lift your spirits in the middle of the storm, and it is Perdón, perdón.
It's not a matter of throwing garbage at each other, but if feeling that you do it at some point is positive to lift your spirits, then do it. Then you will calmly evaluate your mistakes and correct them.
Number 1
This song about which there are a few myths: that the man later committed suicide, that the ex-girlfriend after listening to it killed herself, and so many others, gives an extra touch of drama to the song.
I think it is the classic for some decades now, to pass the bad time of spite, but then you can listen to it as background music as if nothing.
There are many more, but my idea was not to leave you depressed, haha. Do you have any to add? I'll read them in the comments
