Heyy
I learnt some lessons today and they were really hurtful lessons
You know sometimes you are lonely or unhappy and someone shows up and makes you happy and is there for you and seems like the solution to all your problems. So when it comes to a question of dating, your mind is all yes and you shove every doubts away.
Sometimes, that's a bad bad decision.
First, love is not unimportant in a relationship. It might not be the only thing but its not less important than others. I think you should love a person enough to date the person. I don't know the standard of enough for everyone but I know there should be a standard of "enough".
Second, don't jump into a relationship, please give it time. Even when you seem awfully sure, there are some lessons or things time will reveal to you.
Third, please if you feel its not right for whatever reason, kindly jump out. There is a limit to what you can correct in marriage without hurting other lives, a really serious limit so jump out fast.
Well, nothing else comes to mind...
So for now...till next time