Love is the distinct difference between discipline and violence. Correction is not done violently in love.
How you correct the child dictates how the discipline is responded to and the message that this act of discipline transmits to the child. Some of us parents punish our children with rage that has been written over us all and why they want to do the same thing over and over again.
Violence discipline has a negative influence on your children. They will not get the corrections if the correction is carried out in wrath. Try always to calm down and don't get to the verge of your discipline. By disciplining your children, you are not trying to harm them but teach them right from wrong. Discipline them in love,