Trust problem has become a significant instrument that is missing in many relationships.
Any relationship between either parents , family members (nuclear or extended) or lovers requires a high degree of confidence and fidelity.
But if there is no confidence in any relationship, then the relationship will never stand.
I once heard a great woman share her experience and she stated that she had a high degree of insecurity when she first got married to her husband, she couldn't bear him talking to another lady and wanting to hug her, she would get really angry and flare up.
But, something occurred on a faithful day that prompted her to come to her senses, she said she went out with her spouse and saw a mentor there, what surprised her was the way the husband of her mentor stood around with ladies, embracing and talking to them while his wife looked away as if this wasn't her business.
She couldn't contain it any longer, ran to her mentor and pulling her aside, she said to her: are you blind or appear to be blind, do you want to tell me you can't see how ladies just interact with your guy, did n't you have any clue what could actually occur?
Her mentor calmed her down saying “, "Look here, my Love, you can't go that way, in the end you'll just hurt yourself.
She laughed and said, "I know the man I married, I know the things he can do, if you keep running around your husband, you might just do something bad for yourself.
First you shouldn't even marry a guy you can't trust.
If someone is worth your heart(going into a relationship with the person), then that person is worth your confidence as well.