Hello friends,
Welcome you all in my new blog post.
How are you all? Have you ever falling in love for someone?
In my college time I always guides the couple how they will improve their relationship and As we saw in current time lot of person who really loves each other also not successful in relationship so here I am sharing my knowledge about the love. I hope it will helpful for you all.
I know the answer almost all of us once in life falling in love for someone. Its our human nature. Lot of people will see the title and will told me that why I did not write Love or Lust in title, Even that title is suitable for this blog post but I wanted to make a catchy title so I decided to go with above title. Let's dive into the topic without wasting your time. I wanted to explain each and everything in detail As it is very sensible topic.
What is love?
Its quiet interesting question as everyone will do this but this feeling not be easy to explained in the words. But in simple words its affection and when person or any living thing falling in love for someone than they will always thinking about its better life. Best example of pure love is mother and son love or dog loves for its owner.
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But apart from that type of love famous type of love is younger couples. Everyone wants to be spend their life with person they love. But lot of people will forget that even you love that person but that person also needs to be love with you and here is all problems were rise. We will explain what kind of problem were rise in this post later.
What is Physical Relationship Or Lust?
Sometimes some relationship are only taken place to fulfill the physical needs of humans. It doesn't have love, It only have physical attraction.
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To keep this kind of relationship is not a problem but it should be clear to both. As we heard term players that type of players comes into this category. This type of relationship only hurt when one is in love for other person and other person is just kept that relationship for physical needs without informing other person. Now days majority of relationship comes into this category and because of that we see lot of heartbreaks.
How we identify which type of our relationship is ?
As I mentioned two type of relationships in this post. Now we comes to this point how we identify which type of relationship we have. Its pretty easy to identify as if your in love relationship then there is no place for lie. Even healthy love relationship always helpful for your career. In love relationship Your partner never shouting on you and always looking for your better career growth also he never ignores you in the name of work or privacy. If your partner is really busy in work he simply told you with pic of work what he is really doing that time.
If your in physical relationship and you don't know about this then this tips will helps you. As I mentioned physical relationship is the relation which only based on physical needs so whenever you talk with your partner and your partner always turns you on physical or sexual topic then definitely your in this type of relationship. As this type of relation is based on physical needs your partner always demands you for things like hugs, kisses and other sexual activities.
Now you all will says me even in love relationship physical activities were involved. Yes in those relationship also physical activities were involved but in that relationship You both are understand the situation of each other. If you partner in trouble and your in love relationship then you will give emotional stuff to your partner not physical activities. Even if you both are talking on serious topic of your future and career growth then in love relationship you will always giving the solution but in physical relationship you will only get fake promises not actions.
So you have to observe your relationship pretty closely. Is your relationship involves both emotional and physical stuff or it only has physical activities. As if your in love relationship your relationship helps you to grow and it always give happiness and smile even your in bad times. Its totally depends on your choice which type of relationship you want but which type of relationship you want from your partner that always told to your partner and never give false hope to your partner.
How "Account is hacked " Term used to save toxic relationship
Yes your reading right this is the main part of our post and for this part I clear the two types of relationship to you all. Now here I shared two real life incident and I always happy to share my experiences with you all. This is the incident happened in the ending of 2020 but Its still hurting me more.
One of my friend is having relationship with a girl for more than 2 years and they were like perfect couple. But one day I got the message from my friend is he were caught by his girlfriend while flirting with other girl. To save relationship he lied to his girlfriend that his account his hacked and all this things were done by the hackers. His girlfriend were not even trust on him that time he involves me to convince his girlfriend. He promises me that he will not cheat his girlfriend if I save his relationship and that time we ready one script and proofs to see his accounts were hacked. As we all know if we login our FB from unknown devices than we will received one notification from Facebook. So we just help of that thing and create all the proofs to save him. But after saving him he not kept his words and he cheats his girlfriend for more than one year. When she saw one day he is spending time with other girl that girl is broken and also lost faith on love.
Now you all people will thinks only boys were messed up into the relationship but now here is another incident were similar reason were used to save relation. This time it is used by a girl One of my friend having 10 years of relationship and in that relationship boy were given its 100 percent but my friend were not happy with that she wants that guy in life for long time but she also flirts with handsome boys and hook up with other guys. That time I try to convinced her but she never stopped and one day she caught by boyfriend and that time she used the same term as my account were hacked and all this activities were done by hackers.
Now above both incident really happens in front of me and that time I was not able to stopped those incident but here let me clear you one thing as Hackers were didn't have this much free time to hacked your accounts and flirt with other person. As this terms were used by everywhere so I am thinking to write this article and let you understand who is hackers really is. As I am working as full stack developer in MNC and we need to follow all the data security just to prevent hacking. As we are working for more than 12 hours to prevent hacking. Hackers also work for 18 to 20 hours just to hack data and demands money from MNC.
Hackers doesn't have interest in your love life or personal life unless your celebrity. They always to hacking for the money and fame. Nowdays social media has strong data security policy that makes hacking of personal account is just Impossible. As even you logged in your account from different browser and device you will get notification and instantly those app were send otp to your mobile number.
Hackers were always tried to hacked the systems and leaks the data from data center as if they get that data then they will demand money from those MNC and also you have to aware about hackers always try to hacked your bank account for stealing the money. Not your social media account to flirt with other people. So aware about this all the messages and activities done by your partner on social media are belongs to your partner only.
After reading whole article I hope you will have better understanding of the relationship. I just want to share something with you all.
Be Real and Be loyal in relationship.
This one line will have power to change whole things So have you ever witnessed such term. If yes then please share your experience in comment section.