I had an interesting conversation with a friend recently we were talking about our father's I told him that my father was right in so many ways when I grew older I realised he was right. but I didn't understand the meaning of his words when I was young I wish he had told me or explained to me things better so I can fully understand them.
- Family Park A I did 50 push ups and 50 squat I couldn't walk properly after that haha 🤣
He asked me "what does your father do"? I said "he's a soldier 🪖" he said "that's why he can't explain to you better" so I asked him "why not?" He told me that "Being a soldier 🪖 they are trained in certain ways that we normal people will not understand because they follow orders, we do not follow orders like they do, that's what soldiers do they follow orders so when he tells you something he expects you to follow his orders without question" 🪖
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Woohoo that's deeps man haha. That makes so much sense I can't believe as a person who questions and thinks deeply about a lot of things that I didn't realize this simple fact that he is a soldier 🪖 even though he was right in so many ways but his words was hard to understand now I understand why when I speak 🗣️ to him these days we are friendlier to each other and there is level of respect we have for each other now.
- I had an audience while I train
When I was young 🌱 I disagree with him in so many ways that always ended up in a fight. He told me one thing a long time ago that I disagreed with him and had a heated conversation he just kept quiet after I lost my cool. I told him why he didn't help me when I was struggling and I was struggling to even find food at the time I was miserable and depressed .
- Family Park A Abu Dhabi UAE - I didn't walk much just did my training need to get those muscles pumping.
His answer to me was so simple and I lost my mind he said that you're different and you can take care of yourself the others cannot. I was furious with his answer I was a young 🌱 kid so young blood gets angry too fast so I kept talking saying it was ridiculous he just kept quiet and listened to me. Well he was right though even though I failed and failed and failed over and over again I still survived most of the time I did it myself.
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Weird how does he know I will be fine without help? I guess the only way for me to know is to become a father myself.
Question ⁉️ how is your relationship with your father? Does he have words of wisdom you wish to share? Comment below 👇 let's have a fun conversation.
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