There a tons of things, which will come on our way . The process , when you are healing can take your test a million times . Sometimes when the storm hit us unexpectedly, there are chances there can be a fluctuations. You feel that uneven changes , Inside your mind experience, we start questioning why is this happening , why are the events recurring again and again , but there's something that we all need to understand , the process of healing can be testing most of the times , and control is within us . At this point of time , our minds plays to the certain tunes which don't make us feel good . And moment we surrender to those testing tunes , we start become a part of that pain , so here it becomes very much important to maintain that balance between what we think and what we pursue through.