i think it has become the norm to act in the way you describe, due to humanity being programmed by way of emotional imprinting from our parents and by being brainwashed by education factories, mass media and in many more ways.

It will take courageous heart and mind opened people to help re-educate the masses, but this will not be allowed (by the powers that shouldn't be) to happen within the current corrupt systems.

So we the people (those willing and able to take responsibility) to step up to the plate and test and use and bring into being, new equitable systems, powered by the people.