Life is a series of disasters, each one rating your performance with either surviving or not.
Maybe that is why video games can be so addictive. You get rated but not destroyed.
Life works a little differently.
Each new disaster holds you accountable for the one before. Each time you come unprepared, learning nothing from what came before you meet a new disaster.
When you come prepared, what you meet is not a disaster anymore. It's just another event you can negotiate and survive.
If you understand this it changes your life.
Perhaps they will listen and each will turn from their evil ways. Then I will relent and not inflict on them the disaster I was planning because of the evil they have done.
I appreciate your support.
Live life to the fullest.