Welcome to the world where the internet view successful and happy marriage as a scam and that happy marriage doesn't exist.
I mean who told them that there are no honest men out there, who love and cherish their wives.
Who told them there are no faithful, submissive and respectful women out there.
Who is really teaching this generation that marriage has to be fifty fifty or nothing.
Why are people so pained anytime they see happy couple and all they could do is tell the other party that such wouldn't last or that their spouse are just acting it.
Why do we always believe that there are no happy marriage, I know we are all imperfect but, then I believe happy marriage can exist.
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I read on x last night about a popular fashion designer by name veekyjay people where just talking ill about how fortunate the husband is for marrying her because she seem to be well connected and financially stable than he is.
I am making reference to this
The way people bully Veeky James' husband on social media, especially on X shows how society ignites and fuels conflict between couples. They keep poking fun at the guy, making insensitive and provoking remarks.
They are happy together why are you pained about it?🙄🙄
Leave the guy alone. His wife loves him as he is and has not complained about him. Your jokes about how if he didn't "marry well" he wouldn't have been invited to davido(the popular musician in Nigeria)wedding is lame. He's human, and as much as he's doing a good job so far ignoring the trolls, those insults might start getting to him over time, damaging his self-esteem. These are the kind of things that lead some men to start resenting their successful wives or resort to toxic behaviours to "prove" their masculinity. This is how some once sweet marriages turned sour.
Just like people will not mind their business when they see a husband who enjoys cooking for his wife, doing chores or who treats his wife like his equal. His family will accuse his wife of being lazy, using juju on him or turning their son to her slave. His friends will mock him and call him a woman wrapper or simp. If he doesn't have thick skin he can turn on his wife to prove that he's a "man".
Many women marry men who are more successful than them and nobody mocks them for it. Why then do husbands of success women (especially the not so rich and famous husbands) get mocked? Is this society's twisted way of punishing successful women, hoping to make men afraid of marrying them, and manipulating women who want marriage to not dare to be "too successful"? Hmm!
If a happy couple exists, there are people who actively try to disrupt their happinesses.
I feel the best is just keep your marriage out of the social media if you can or better still develop a deaf ears.
Avoid taking advice from social media, because most of those people don't even have a happy home and yet they keep giving advice oh how to run one.
The best place you can look to for a successful marriage is the holy book( bible) because the originator of this institution ( marriage) gives the best advice on how two imperfect people can enjoy a happy healthy home.
I hope you enjoyed reading this, if you do please give me your thoughts on this issue.
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