Hi, fellow Hivers! I am back. I was gone for a few days because I was on a quick holiday again to Normandy with my family. We got invited to the birthday celebrations of my husband's relatives.
Hey, I'm famous, I got haters LOL
While I was in Normandy, I got a message on Facebook from a concerned citizen who told me that a certain FB group admin mentioned my name again as one of their topics. This admin removed me from her group, accusing me of sharing fake stories of my personal experiences from traveling and dating.
Well, it was a long story that in October 2022, I shared some life updates about my trip to Spain and shared some funny stories on that trip. Suddenly, the main admin, the other admins, and the pioneering members of the group became sarcastic in their comments. Anyway, I was busy in Spain and then another concerned citizen sent me a message about me being removed and blocked from the group with a false accusation of blocking the main admin. Why should I block somebody? I wanted the group to read my stories, anyway. Haha!
Why do they block and remove me from the group?
They were so pissed when I shared a photo of a Filipino celebrity and I told them about my WINNING SMILE. LOL! My point in sharing the photo is that showing your best and most beautiful winning smile makes you feel pretty, feel beautiful, and feel attractive. And who would have thought that this celebrity I had a crush on noticed my smile?
Speaking of SMILES, I won 2nd prize in the ASEAN Photography Challenge | SMILES. You can read my entry of SMILES here.
I regret not sharing a photo of Draco Malfoy aka Tom Felton on that FB group. Maybe, they would go nuts if I told them I dated Draco Malfoy in Tokyo, Japan. Hahaha!
They had so many funny reasons they blocked me but one thing is for sure, I never disrespected anybody in the group. I thought the group was a safe place for women to share their life experiences, including dating and married life. Not only did I share my funny stories but I also shared my personal life struggles in the group. Later on, the admins mocked me in their comments.
To make the story short, the admins and the pioneering members created a group chat just for them to talk about other women in the group. They say awful things to a few members, not just me. However, some women who were victims of their gossip still stayed in the group.
Since I was the new victim, a few concerned citizens sent screenshots of their FB chat group. Even though I was removed from the FB group, the admins, the pioneering members, and other current members still GOSSIP about me until December 2022.
So, I made a little chaos before Christmas time when I sent messages to other members of the group about how unsafe the FB group is because the main admin is tolerating all the toxicity and the gossiping of other women.
It was funny to know that the admins and the pioneering members were shocked to know where I got those screenshots. LOL
And they're blaming me for being the culprit for telling their dark secrets. Oh yes, I am proud to be a WHISTLEBLOWER.
The main admin of the group still thinks about me
LOL, it's now October 2023, a year has passed since she removed me from the group but til now, she will never forget about me. I am renting free on her head/mind. A concerned citizen sent a screenshot of how this admin talked about me.
I sent her a message and I gave her my life updates
I sent the screenshot to her, proof of how she still talks about me in the group. She even confirmed that she still gossips about me. For her to move on, she should visit around the US, or visit a neighboring town when she has the time or IF ONLY she can.
She's a stay-at-home mom but she never visited many places in the US. Whatever her problems are (either it's about documents or her stay there), not really my problem. She has her own Facebook group for more than a year already but she never earned money from it. What a waste of time. Well, it is her enjoyment to gossip about other women in the group.
She hasn't moved on based on the exchange of messages
I decided not to post the other screenshots of our exchange of messages because she said so many nonsense things. I wonder where she got all the ENERGY OF HATING ME. LOL. I don't have to go down to her level because I don't know her in person. She speaks of being an uneducated woman and full of jealousy.
Only Filipinos can understand our exchange of messages. I never speak ill against her because again, I don't know her personally. And she confirmed she gossiped about me because she was saying that I am ugly and I have a bad attitude. Hahaha! Oh, look, who is the bitter person between us? Obviously, it is not me.
Then, I showed off my Samsung Galaxy A71 (typo error A75 on the convo) and I am proud I bought it using my Hive earnings for 3-4 months earnings. And so damn lucky, I ordered one phone but received 2 phones instead. You can read the blog here.
Haha, I told her how she can't afford to buy her own phone because she prefers to get a phone by credit or pay monthly until fully paid. I wonder if she has her own bank account under her name. Again, her FB group is private. Meaning, that she can be whoever she wants in her group. You know, her FB group, her rules. She can be superior and gossip about other women whenever she wants. And she can remove people from the group whenever she feels like it. But the downside is that SHE WILL NEVER EVER EARN MONEY on her FB group while talking about me.
I never tolerate ONLINE BULLYING so calling her out by sending a message is a must. That means, I never blocked her on the group or on Facebook because I can still send her a message. It was funny how she was responsive at first then stopped responding later on. She has no more to say about my Samsung Galaxy phone story. Hahaha! I bet she couldn't handle my life updates.
Well, my point is, if she wants to talk about me on her Facebook group, better she should know my life updates. LOL!
I won't get tired of sending her photos and videos like we are close friends. Hahaha!
If you got an online hater, how will you handle the situation? Will you send life updates to your haters?
Most of the haters in the group are Tagalog speakers and I am a Cebuano or we say BISDAK or Bisayang Daku. I just have no time to argue with them in Tagalog and it's a waste of time getting down to their level. As a Bisayang Daku and a Cebuano, I just laughed at all their comments towards me because they never met me in person.
Another example of a FILIPINO TOXIC TRAIT. If they see you doing well as an individual, Toxic Pinoys will try everything to bring you down.
What can I say to my online haters?
Oh well, please get a life and find something to do online that will let you earn money as a STAY-AT-HOME mom.
In a few months, it will be the year 2024. Still can't get over me?
Should I recommend Hive to my haters?
Haha NO. I am very picky about who to invite and I will only share my resource credits for those who deserve it.
Here's a sneak preview of a side trip to Mont Saint-Michel. I am excited to share the photos in a different community.
Anyway, I am just thankful that I found Hive as I can write my thoughts, my travel experiences, my personal stories as a girl and a woman, my motherhood struggles, and my life here in France which is a mix of full emotions and culture shocks, and my other hobbies in different communities. I found the right platform where I can find like-minded individuals and pursue my love of writing without being judged.
That's all for today's LONG RANT. Haha!